Defiant

They all go through this age where they think they are a little to old to still be getting there butt whupped by you and they do everything in there power to let you know this! The give you a defiant look that they know will automatically result in a good ass whuppin! Sometimes they will even go as far as yelling back at you or a middle finger! You know this phase there going through well because you went through the same thing growing up with your father. It took a while and alot of nights crying yourself to sleep before you realised that as long as he is the father and your the son your going to be getting a good butt whppin when ever he think you need one!A little embarrassment will almost always do the trick! Even though you have been taking the strap to his bare backside since he was 15 maybe a old fashioned session over your lap like when he was a little boy might humiliate him enough to snap him out of his defiant attitude! I'm talking butt naked across your lap with the hairbrush until he is bawling like a baby! I'm sure that will get his attention and let him know exactly who the dad is in this house! It will also let him know what will happen if he tries to give you any of this attitude again!